We really need to learn to take care of ourselves first. No one else will do it for us.

Teach your kids this especially daughters. We are all about saying yes and giving which is good. I always told my son and daughter growing up I raised you to be loving and giving, but givers often attract takers. ~ Donna Weiner 

Sometimes too much generosity and kindness is bad . People remember the smallest mistake you have done but will forget the goodness and kindness you showed them. ~ Rosemarie Velarde 

If the price to pay is some people being angry or leaving, it's a cheap price to pay! Self-respect is priceless! ~ Paula Ronen 

You also have to have a healthy relationship with yourself, so you would know how to have a healthy relationship with other people. ~ Nikka Rose